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January 31st, 2011
Don’t tell anyone but my 2 littl’uns eat tomato ketchup sandwiches at least once a week.

It’s J’s fault. She was offered ham, cheese or peanut butter sandwiches, but asked for tomato ketchup. I made it for her, thinking that she wouldn’t actually eat it but she did. And the bread too.
Given that when she has cheese, ham or any other sort of sandwich she tends to eat the filling and leave the bread, I’m not sure if that’s progress or not. And of course when no2 son spotted the opportunity, he bailed in too.
Now, they tend to ask (and be given) tomato ketchup sandwiches for lunch once a week. If it makes it seem any better and less chav-tastic, it’s usually on brown bread (or at least 50/50) and it usually comes when they’ve been eating fruit all morning and is followed up by fruit for pudding.
I can’t even say that it’s home-made tomato ketchup, made with the tomatoes that we grew together lovingly last summer because it isn’t. We moved house before our crop of tomatoes had ripened and had to leave them all behind,sob.
So I admit it. I’m a slummy Mummy.
What do your little ones eat that you don’t admit to?
Tags: cloth baby wipes, tomato ketchup sandwiches Posted in Family Life | 1 Comment »
January 28th, 2011
Todays post is again inspired by the Friday Club carnival over at Notes from Home asking us to share favourite books. As you may know I’m an avid reader, ploughing my way through at least two or three books per month (hence the Kindle on my christmas present list!
On the fiction side, my favourite books are almost too numerous to mention and tend to vary wildly from horror / sci-fi (Stephen King’s ‘The Stand‘ has got to be up there towards the top, I’ve reread it at least 5 or 6 times), right through to Ghostwritten by David Mitchell and the Time Travellers Wife by Audrey Niffenegger.

And, can I admit my guilty pleasures here? It has to be either Riders by Jilly Cooper (OMG, Rupert Campbell-Black!) or any of the Trueblood series, especially those featuring the big, blond, butch vampire Eric. Yum.

Lest you think that my reading material is WAY too trashy (which I admit, some of it definitely is) I do try to balance it out on the non-fiction side. I’ve just finished re-reading Bad Science by Ben Goldacre who does a marvellously sarky, cynical job of highlighting media medical scare stories and out of proportion reporting (the whole MMR scandal being a fabulous case in point). He also rips apart ‘Dr’ Gillian McKeith, who god knows needs taking down a peg or two. He’s witty and intelligent and treats his readers in the same way without being intimidating and it makes great reading.
Another book to make you think is The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins. Coming from Northern Irealand I don’t have much time for religion and reading this book finally gave me the courage to admit that I’m an atheist. It’s also got some fabulously funny reading too ‘”I have found it amusing strategy, when asked whether I am an atheist, to point out that the questioner is also an atheist when considering Zeus, Apollo, Amon Ra, Mithras, Baal, Thor, Wotan, the Golden Calf, the Flying Spaghetti Monster, and almost all the other gods that have been invented since the dawn of man. I just go one god further.”
But I couldn’t write about my favourite books without including my favourite cookbooks too. Although I’m a big fan of Jamie Oliver, I find that the books which I return to again and again are The Ballymaloe Cookery Course by Darina Allen and The Kitchen Revolution.
The Ballymaloe cookery book is now well-thumbed in my house as there are literally recipes for every occasion and some fantastic preserves recipes also. However on a daily basis, I tend to use The Kitchen Revolution for family meals as it provides seasonal recipes for every day of the year and has opened my eyes to a lot more ingredients (and nice ways of cooking them – I actually like cabbage now!)
As always if you’ve got opinions on any of choices, please share!
Here are the other entries in this Book Carnival:
Jax from Making It Up reviews ten favourite books she loves to read with her children in My favourite books.
Kelly from Domestic Goddesque posts about the book that gave her back the joy of losing yourself in a book in I read books once. Now I have small children.
Jenny from GingerBread House reviews her favourite book: Orla Kiely – Pattern.
Nova from Cherished By Me posts about the books that fuelled her passion for reading in My favourite book.
Not So Single Mum from Diary of a (not so) Single Mum reviews The Lady in the Tower.
Becky from Book Reviews for Mums reviews the book that opened her up to her responsibilities and the choices she makes in life in My Favourite Book.
Helen from Cheeky Wipes reviews her favourite books in From Riders to The God Delusion – my favourite books.
Cass from The Diary of a Frugal Family reviews her first and favourite cookbook in Where It All Began.
Cara from Freckles Family reviews a favourite from the past few years in A Favourite Book.
Maggy from Red Ted Art reviews a recent gift, a Pop-up, Pull-out, Picture Atlas.
Ella from Notes From Home reviews Sad Book.
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January 25th, 2011
With baby no4 due in a couple of months, and the Excel baby show coming up, I thought it was about time that I mentally reviewed our baby equipment situation. After all, if there is anything I *need* then it makes sense to take advantage of the offers which abound at the show.
If you’re due to have another baby, you’ve probably got the essentials already: cot, pram, car seat, feeding equipment, and a travel cot. So what else do you actually need?
Essentials
Well depending on how old your first child is, you’ll need some form of transport. Options range from double buggies (I love my nipper out and about, but it’s massive!), or keep your existing buggy and add a buggy board if your child is slightly older. Alternatively, keep your older child in the buggy and just use a sling for the littl’un. I used a combo of double buggy / existing pram and sling depending on where I was going, how far it was and whether they would have space for my buggy or not when I got there!
Slings aren’t just useful when you’re out and about though. I called my Kari-me sling my ‘hands-free’ kit for bubs no3 as there was no way I could get anything done otherwise. It was a real life-saver and super comfy to wear around the house too.
Of course you’ll need more teeny tiny nappies (cloth or disposable) and if you’re using Cheeky Wipes it’s probably worth investing in some additional wipes so that you’ve got plenty on hand for those newborn poo’s.
Nice to have’s
I think pretty much everything else falls into the ‘nice to have’ list. Top of this list is one of the fabulous breastfeeding scarves from Mamascarf which not only allows you to feed more discreetly (without tucking a muslin into your bra strap which is what I’ve done until now!) but also supports the baby.

Next, some new baby-gro’s and vests as the old ones are a bit tired now. And I think I really want one of the fabulous baby blankets from My Little Patch, I’ve got my eye on a lovely spotted flannelette and minkee one which is just gorgeous.
Lastly, I might just treat bubs to some of the lovely Baby Shampoo from Burts Bees which is just gorgeous, so lovely to use on their super-soft skin and just yummy smelling without being overpowering.
Have I missed anything? Let me know if I have!
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January 21st, 2011
Yet again, Notes from Home have provided me with something to natter about for their Friday Club. This time the topic is ‘Organised home’ something which I’ve blogged about before regarding Birthday Party Invites.

This time, I’ve gone for Laundry. It’s a dull and depressing topic but it has to be done, especially with three kids under 6 who get through an unbelievable amount of clothes. I have to keep on top of it otherwise I’d be completely snowed under, so here’s my top tips:
Does it really need washing?
Eldest son seems to think that the laundry basket is where he puts all clothes that are on his bedroom floor when he’s asked to tidy up – whether they’re clean or dirty. We have a two day rule – unless it’s obviously dirty it can be worn for two days - H’s shirts are the exception!
Separate Laundry baskets for Darks and Lights
Our laundry basket has two separate bags for darks and lights so you can immediately see if you have enough for a wash load of either type.
Timing is everything….
I always put my wash on first thing in the morning, so that I can get it hung up to dry before the school / nursery run / work. Because we have so much washing I used to do a load every day, but changed that recently when I bought an additional indoor drying line and I’ve changed my routine slightly so that I’m doing two loads at a time, for example:
- Thursday evening: Put no1 washload on, take down Tuesday washing loads & fold
- Friday Morning: Put no 2 washload on, Hang no1 washload, Put away folded clothes from previous evening, hang no 2 washload when complete
- Saturday evening – repeat Thursday
- Sunday – repeat Friday
The devil is in the detail
I am ever so slightly anal when it comes to folding clean clothes and have actually stopped my Mum from ‘helping’ me because she just folds everything and sorts it by child and puts it in the basket to take upstairs. Good in theory but you then have to spend twice as long putting it away because you’ re going from drawer to drawer. What I like to do is to fold the item and then place it in that person’s pile, but within the pile in ‘drawer order’. So socks and pants on top, PJ’s next, tops and t-shirts after than and jumpers / jeans / skirts at the bottom. See, told you I was anal…
Ironing
I do possess an iron, but it only ever sees the light of day on a Sunday evening when I iron H’s shirts while watching ‘Come Dine with Me’. Aside from that I don’t think anything else really needs ironed (and I don’t think I look particularly wrinkled / scruffy?)
Here are the other entries in this Organising Tips for the Home Carnival:
Make Do Mum posts Organising for Magpies
Maggy at Red Ted Art posts How to… make your own Scrapbook/ Artwork Calendar
Cass at The Diary of a Frugal Family posts How To Be An Organised Mum
Jax at Making It Up posts her tips in A place for everything and everything in its place
Jules at I Need Curtains for the Window in my Head posts her tips for organising post
Angela at Mum’s Survival Guide posts The Organised Side of Me: Paperwork.
Ella at Notes From Home posts her laundry tips.
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January 13th, 2011
It’s not often that I do really personal posts but I need to get this down on paper so that I can stop thinking / talking about it and boring everyone around me, including myself!
As you might know, I’m expecting baby no 4 in just over two months time and would like this one to be a home birth. Why? Well I just really like the thought of pottering around at home in labour, getting into the bath near the end, pushing the baby out, having a nice shower and back into my own bed for a snooze with H and bubs. My last two labours have been very straightforward water births in hospital, just gas and air and I’ve gone from zero to delivery in about 6 – 8 hours, so this isn’t an unreasonable idea.
We wouldn’t have to hang around hospital for 6 hours afterwards, with me covered in crud and waiting for a shower. I’d have a bit more dignity too, rather than lying naked, semi covered in towels, boobs out and baby attached. Not a pretty sight.
We’d be able to help ourselves to a bite to eat too (during and afterwards!), rather than relying on dodgy hot chocolate from the vending machine and a couple of bits of toast. And then what bliss, to be able to climb into my lovely comfy clean bed and snuggle up with my baby girl and H.
So why am I feeling like I have to justify my decision?
My H is happy to support me whatever I decide because as he quite rightly points out, it’s my body. But he’d rather we go to hospital because he perceives it as safer. My Mum (who works in a maternity unit in Belfast) thinks I should go to hospital. As do the majority of midwives in her work but that’s probably because there were a grand total of 91 home-births last year in the whole of Northern Ireland, as opposed to 35 just in my local area. Again, they cite ’safety’ as the main reason for this.
My friends range from being vehemently opposed to thinking I should definitely go for it. The key behind whether they support me or not seems to be based on their own birth experiences which is fair enough. But what are the facts and what am I considering when I make my decision?
Safety
In a recent study of 330,000 planned home-births there was no difference in the perinatal infant mortality rate between the planned hospital birth community and home births. No difference. That surprised me but the numbers speak for themselves. So I could challenge all those people planning hospital births about why they are choosing such a risky option….
You’re less likely to need intervention if you choose a home birth. Less intervention means less chance of needing a C Section, less chance of haemmoraging afterwards from a little cut made by an inexperienced junior doctor.
If you do bleed or the baby needs resuscitation, the home birth midwives are equipped with the same basic equipment that would be available in hospital – drugs or oxygen as appropriate.
Cord Prolapse is the one nightmare scenario as it requires a crash C-section but even with cord prolapse there are early indicators such as the baby being in an unusual position and the baby’s heart rate dropping. And it’s very unlikely to happen in ‘normal’ pregnancies, something like a 1 in 300 chance?
Other children
I’ve been very lucky in that all my labours have started overnight, so I’m reasonably certain that if it happens again, then my other 3 will be sound asleep and will be blissfully unaware that their little sister is making an arrival until they wake up next morning. I don’t think it’s necessary for them to see me squeeze the baby out, but I fully intend to prepare them for any noise by explaining that when Mummy is pushing their baby sister out, it’s hard work and I might sound like a cow mooing! So potential trauma to other children is very unlikely.
Mind you, I’m more likely to go to hospital just for some peace and quiet if I start to labour midday with my two youngest at home!
Mother’s Intuition
You’ll notice that I described my 2nd & 3rd labours as easy and straightforward. My first should have been, but due to a combo of meconium in my waters and a horrible midwife who insisted I lie flat on my back which (unsurprisingly) slowed things down, I ended up with a forceps delivery.
However it was very nearly a C-Section because at one point the horrid midwife was insistent that the baby’s heartrate was dipping. The room filled with medical staff in scrubs and my H was asked to sign the C-section consent form. I was sure that we were both fine however and kept repeating ‘We’re fine, my baby is fine’ and kept up my deep breathing and kept calm. Sure enough eventually the medical team concurred with that everything was OK and left me for another while to get on with it. I’m sure if I’d been able to sit up as I wanted then I could have delivered him myself, but unfortunately I never got the opportunity.
My decision
As long as everything looks good at 38 weeks (baby in good position, nothing weird or wonderful), I’m going to plan to stay at home, but also happy to transfer to hospital if anything looks awry. After all, I’d have been making the trip to hospital anyway….
And I promise to shut up about it now. For at least another 8 weeks.
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January 11th, 2011
Today we’ve got a guest post from Les Roberts who took inspiration from my ‘New Years Resolutions’ and is also trying to eat less chocolate and more fruit amongst other things. Here Les shares his Financial New Years Resolutions, some of which I’ll definitely be taking on board!
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New year is a time to make fresh starts, take on new challenges and give up on old habits…only to revert to type a few weeks later as it makes life much easier and those habits must be old for a reason!
So instead resolving to learn something new (if you’ve been resolving to do this for more than a year then you clearly know all that you are ever going to know!) or quit drinking (probably achievable in January but wait ‘til everyone starts going the pub again next payday!) why not resolve to improve your financial situation?
Taking control of your money will most likely be a lot less painful than giving up chocolate and it’s one resolution that literally pays for you to stick to!
Below are five top tips to help you save and make the most of your money.
Be VAT efficient
The 20 per cent VAT rate is finally upon us but by being a bit more savvy about the way you shop you can keep down the cost of living.
In case you hadn’t heard, VAT rose from 17.5 per cent to 20 per cent on January 4th of this year as part of the government’s plans to boost revenue and cut budget deficit. And research has shown that annual energy bills for the average family (if such a thing exists!) will rise by £161 and the cost of food will increase by £230.
But VAT isn’t charged at 20 per cent on everything so it pays to know which goods are taxed at a lower rate and which goods don’t carry a VAT charge at all.
Those items that are included in the lower five per cent tax band are ‘necessary goods’ such as children’s car seats, mobility equipment for the old and services such as gas and electricity…which is just as well given the increases the energy companies are imposing upon us!
Items that are exempt from VAT are things like newspapers, books and children’s clothing so if you’re buying gifts for children it may make sense to buy books and clothes as opposed to expensive, VAT-heavy toys…but, although VAT-free, I would advise against buying any children you may know a newspaper for their birthday or Christmas!
When it comes to shopping at the supermarket, items that you may deem necessary, such as personal hygiene products, are subject to 20 per cent VAT but ‘staple foods’ such as fruit, vegetables, meat and poultry are exempt from VAT. Slightly more bizarre is the tax quirk that renders milkshakes, chocolate spread and tortilla chips as being VAT-free but subject’s sweets and snacks to the full 20 per cent charge!
Thinking about it, being VAT efficient sounds more difficult than quitting smoking!
Be energy efficient
As mentioned above, VAT is set at a reduced rate of five per cent for household gas and electricity but that doesn’t mean that it’s cheap to heat your house as energy companies are continually putting up their prices!
For example, NPower, British Gas, SSE and Scottish Power have all announced price hikes of up to nine per cent and by simply switching energy provider – probably away from one of those four – you could save yourself over £300 per year!
In addition, research by the Energy Trust has shown that by swapping your old boiler (the thing that heats your water not an in-law or disliked relative!) for a new energy-efficient one can cut your bills by as much as £235 per year.
Change credit card
A rise interest rates means that credit card companies will pass this increase on to their customers so try to dodge this bullet by taking out a new credit card. If you have a good credit rating you should have no problem being accepted for low rate credit card or even a 0% balance transfer and new purchase card.
If you take the interest away, which is often set at in or around 20%, then this means that you are only actually paying for the goods that you have purchased and not lining the pockets of the credit card companies. But, if you do this, be sure to keep an eye on when the 0% offer ends to make sure you make the most of the savings and don’t start paying interest again.
Also, if you are worried about being rejected and a negative credit card search being left on your credit history then sites like moneysupermarket off an ‘approved’ service whereby you can enter your details and be given a score out of ten on the likelihood of being accepted by a variety of lenders. The best thing about this service is that it doesn’t leave a footprint on your credit history.
Change bank account
Since the taxpayer bail-out banks have constantly been making the news, be it through the charges they levy at customers or the bonuses they give their shareholders. But what many people don’t realise is that they could be financially better off if they switch their current account through a better interest rate or free overdraft facility.
It’s also worth looking at the add-ons that some banks offer on their current accounts which can include things like breakdown cover and travel insurance at a reduced rate.
And changing banks is no longer the laborious task it once was as most banks now have a dedicated switching service that, once you have signed up, will transfer all of your money and direct debits or standing orders over to your new account.
And, one other word of advice, if the bank tries to charge you for taking out a current account then keep looking, you can generally get everything you need from a current account without having to pay a premium for it!
Claim what you’re entitled to
Although most people don’t think twice about paying taxes few of us actually claim back money that we’re entitled to and it’s worthwhile taking the time to go to the advice.org.uk website to see what benefits you could be missing out on.
So be it working tax credit, council tax benefit or child tax credit, there are a variety of benefits out there that could ensure that you can claim back some of your hard earned cash.
These are just a few ways in which you can resolve to make 2011 a better year financially than 2010 but there are also other measures you can take such as changing your mortgage, putting your savings in an ISA or making savings on your home or motor insurance.
So take the time to look at your finances and work out the best ways to save or make more money this year.
Article written by Les Roberts
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January 7th, 2011
This blog post is inspired partly by the Friday Club over at Notes from Home and partly by that post-christmas bleurgh feeling you get when you’ve eaten too many mince pies and chocolates and really want something that feels a bit healthier.
It’s also a one-pot wonder as the only cooking involved is for the lentils but it still manages to taste great. Even my slightly fussy 6 year old likes it (although the three year old is less keen). It also makes a great lunch box salad for my husband.
Ingredients
- 400g puy lentils (the small black ones)
- 200g feta cheese
- one red onion
- cherry tomatoes (one small punnet, about 250g)
- small bunch of herbs (parsley, basil, tarragon are all good)
Dressing
- 4 – 5 tbsp olive oil
- 1 lemon
- wine vinegar to taste
- salt and pepper (very important)
Method
- Wash lentils, place in saucepan and cover with plenty of water
- Do not add salt at this stage as it can make your lentils hard
- Bring to boil and then simmer for 35 – 40 minutes until cooked
- While the lentils are cooking, put all the ingredients for the dressing into a jam jar and shake until combined. Taste and add wine vinegar and seasoning to taste
- Chop tomatoes roughly and either slice finely or chop onions, depending on how you prefer them
- Peel leaves from herbs and chop roughly
- When lentils are cooked, drain and return to pan
- Stir in the chopped herbs, tomatoes and onions
- Add the dressing and mix well
- Taste and correct seasoning if necessary
Eating anything with lentils always makes me feel virtuous, no idea if this is justified by this dish or not, but it does taste good, so no matter!
Here are the other entries in the Friday Club One-Pot Cooking Carnival:
Clare at Seasider in the City gives us her Sausage Casserole.
Cass at The Diary of a Frugal Family gives us the perfect pudding for winter, her Rice Pudding.
Nova at Cherished By Me posts her Herby One Pot Chicken.
Jax at Making it Up posts her Prime Number Vegetable Stew.
Cara at Freckles Family posts her Pot-luck Goulash.
Ella at Notes From Home posts her Rice Pudding.
Tags: Friday Club, lentil feta salad, warm lentil feta salad Posted in Friday Club, Frugal Living, Recipes | 9 Comments »
January 4th, 2011
Back in February last year I first blogged about the Amazon Kindle and Sony Ebook. At the time I was tempted, attracted by the fact that I’d be helping minimise the environmental impact of book production.
Then in September we moved house. And when we moved we took boxes upon boxes of books with us. Literally enough to fill about 4 good sized, floor to ceiling book cases! It was this (and the clutter on my bedside table) that persuaded me to ask my friends and family to club together to buy me an Amazon Kindle for Christmas.
I chose Amazon rather than any other brand partly because they’re a brand I trust. I buy from Amazon a lot and their customer service is excellent. There are also thousands of customer reviews of the Kindle so before you buy you can see if there’s any drawbacks / irritations you need to be aware of.
So it was with great excitement on Christmas morning that I unwrapped my lovely new Kindle. Firstly I was surprised at how light it was (247g apparently), which is MUCH lighter than most of the books I read.
It was really easy to set up. It was literally 5 minutes to connect it to our home wi-fi (which I didn’t have to do since mine is the 3g version) and then deregister it from my husbands Amazon account and onto mine.
Later on Christmas Day I got a chance to steal 20 minutes alone and have a proper read and play. I was relieved and pleased to find that it really was as easy to read as a paperback. Because it isn’t backlit, it doesn’t tire your eyes in the same way as reading from a computer screen (or the Kindle iphone app). It takes a fraction of a second for the page to turn but you soon get used to that.
I downloaded quite a few free ‘classic’ books including Dracula and Sherlock Holmes which seemed to download almost instantly. Plus I took advantage of an Amazon deal on new authors, randomly picking a selection of books for just £1 each.
The real test however was how it would perform in bed….
And it performed with flying colours! I was able to prop the kindle against my duvet, meaning that I only had to press the button to turn the pages, I didn’t actually have to hold it. When I fell asleep reading it therefore it just stayed on the side of the bed rather than dropping to the floor. And it automatically switched itself off after I had fallen asleep which is great as it doesn’t run the battery down.
I’ve now been using my Kindle for 11 days and it’s telling me that I need to charge the battery. Apparently if I’d switched off wifi (just switching it on again when I actually want / need to use it) the battery would have lasted twice as long, up to a month which is good going.
As I think I mentioned before, I’ve got the Kindle iphone app. Although I’ve used it a little bit previously, I found it tiring on my eyes, so definitely not an alternative to the Kindle. However the other day when I was waiting for a midwife checkup I thought I’d have another quick look, to see if the new books that I had bought were available on the iphone. I was VERY chuffed to find that my iphone app had synced to the exact place where I’d fallen asleep reading the night previously. I had a quick read for 10 minutes, then when I got home and switched my kindle on, found that it had synced to where I left off that morning. Brilliant.
Anyway, in summary my updated list of Kindle / Ebook Reader Pro’s & Cons:
Pro’s
- Minimises storage space needed (holds 3,500 books!)
- Minimises environmental impact of book production
- Very easy to use and enjoy
- Light to carry around
- Books tend to be cheaper
Cons
- Can’t read in the bath!
- Book sharing is difficult (although if my husband decides to get a Kindle I’ll register it to my Kindle account and we can share the books)
- Not all books are available in Kindle / Ebook format
So far, I’m really pleased with my Kindle and would recommend it to anyone who’s thinking of buying one. One of the few gadgets that it is (IMO) worth shelling out on.
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